On Tinder, the assessment about whether you swipe left (don’t like), or right (like) on a profile – is often made in a matter of seconds, if that. (I would love to see that statistics for how long it takes men to swipe vs women).
Here are a few things that will make me more inclined to swipe left:
- No picture of themself.
I assume that they’re not attractive, or they don’t think they’re attractive, or they don’t want others to know that they’re on Tinder, all which are unattractive qualities (the last being – they’re not playing fairly).
- Smoking cigarettes in the pictures.
- Pictures of just kids.
I get that you love your kids and want us to know that – but Tinder is a dating site – prominent pictures of your kids is creepy. A picture of you and your kid is ok.
- ‘Not DTF’.
I think reflects a cynical attitude toward all potential mates. I get that you might receive several ‘DTF?’ messages – but I’m not one of them. Putting ‘Not DTF’ in your profile suggests to me that you’re going to be quite suspicious and untrusting, and that’s not what I’m looking for.
- ‘I prefer tall guys’.
I’m a tall guy myself, but this line seems incredibly insensitive.
- The dog or flower wreath snapchat filter.
I can’t stand them. I don’t know what it is.
- All MySpace angle pictures.
This is a common technique used by larger women to make their photos look attractive, despite their size.
It indicates a lack of confidence – I’d rather see you rock your body no matter what size it is. I’m much more likely to swipe right on a large girl that has a full body photo, than one who has just MySpace angles.
- No profile blurb.
It tells me that you think that your pictures are the solely enough to attract a mate (which is likely true), but this seems self centered to me.
So that’s some things that will likely make me want to swipe left, here’s what will get an instant right swipe or super like from me.
- Mentioning liking puns or bad jokes in profile blurb.